Terms And Conditions

Welcome to Jainbyah.com set up, promoted, and is maintained, by Cloud Cube Services. (Here in after referred to as CCS)
Please read the following terms and conditions very carefully as your use of the Website and associated CCS Services (as defined below) is subject to your acceptance of and compliance with the following terms and conditions including the applicable policies which are incorporated herein by way of reference and as amended from time to time (the "Terms and conditions").
ACCESSING, BROWSING OR OTHERWISE USING THE WEBSITE INDICATES YOUR AGREEMENT TO ALL THE TERMS AND CONDITIONS herein, SO PLEASE READ THE TERMS and conditions CAREFULLY BEFORE PROCEEDING. By impliedly or expressly accepting these Terms and Conditions of use of website, you also accept and agree that you have read, understood and are bound by these Terms and conditions, regardless of how you/CCS member subscribe to or use the CCS Services. If you do not want to be bound by the Terms and Conditions, you must not use the Website or the CCS Services.
In these Terms, references to "You" or "User" or "CCS member" shall mean the end user accessing the Website/CCS services, its contents or using the CCS Services offered. "CCS Services" means a collective reference to the Website service provided by Jainbyah.com, which term shall, for the purposes hereof, be deemed to include its subsidiaries, affiliates, directors, executives, officers, employees, agents, attorneys, accountants and any person vested with any responsibility for any task relating to the affairs of the business), with its registered office currently located at No.155 Raj Towers, Office No 217, 2nd Floor, Cottonpet Main Road, Opposite to Central Crime Branch,Bangalore 560053.
Scope
Website acts as a platform to enable any user to themselves register on it (by filling the mandatory fields and optional fields, if any) to voluntarily search for profile(s) from the database of Jainbyah.com ['CCS'] already registered users, for seeking prospective lawful matrimonial alliances for themselves.
CCS Members are provided with free/paid access for searching profiles from the database of CCS/Website, as per the partner preference set by you (on the Website) and you shortlist the prospective alliances yourself.
CCS Membership is guided by the terms and conditions mentioned herein below. By using or accessing the CCS Services, you agree to be bound by all the terms and conditions ("Agreement"):

1. Eligibility:
a) CCS Membership and rights of admission is reserved solely for :
I. Indian Nationals & Citizens.
II. Persons of Indian Origin (PIO).
III. Non Resident Indians (NRI).
IV. Persons of Indian Descent or Indian Heritage
V. Persons who intend to marry persons of Indian Origin.
b) Further in capacity as CCS member you confirm that you are :
I. 18 years or above (if you are a woman) or 21 years or above (if you are a man);
II. Legally competent to marry as per the law applicable to you (however you may register on our website by stating "Awaiting Divorce" in About Us), and
III. Not prohibited or prevented by any applicable law for the time being in force from entering into a valid marriage.

2. Registration
a. We expect that you would complete the online registration process with fairness and honesty while furnishing your personal information's to CCS/Website. You would appreciate that efficient and effective match making through our automated system depend upon yourself furnishing true, accurate, current, complete information and photos etc. We expect you to read the relevant column before keying in the details or selecting the option available or uploading the photo. You are requested not to key in details of the profile in field other than the applicable field (including mentioning id's of other platforms/websites/ applications) or repeating your details in another fields, after filling them once in the relevant fields or others photographs. You further undertake that you alone shall be responsible or liable for any information provided to CCS/Website. In order to serve you better if CCS requires additional details you agree to provide it. CCS/Website shall reproduce the registered member details on "as is as available" basis to other registered members and CCS members shall be solely liable for the information given by such CCSmember. Further you may fill in your email id and phone number in any of our registration campaigns appearing in various websites as part of our advertisements, basis which you may receive call from our Customer Service Center and assist you in getting your profile registered on our website. CCS may also reproduce your profile information onother websites owned by CCS to provide better prospects to you.
b. If at any point of time CCS/Website comes to know or is so informed by third party or has reasons to believe that any information provided by you for registration (including photos) or otherwise is found to be untrue, inaccurate, or incomplete then CCS/Website shall have full right to suspend or terminate (without any notice) your CCS membership and forfeit any amount paid by you towards CCS membership fee and refuse to provide CCS service to you thereafter.
c. CCS Membership is restricted strictly to the registered CCS/Website individual member only. Organizations, companies, businesses and/or individuals carrying on similar or competitive business cannot become Members of CCS/Website and nor use the CCS Service or CCS members data for any commercial purpose, and CCS reserves its right to initiate appropriate legal action for breach of these obligation.

3. Role and Responsibility of CCS
a) CCS/Website is an endeavour to help you find your dream life partner (prospect) through of process of automated searching, shortlisting and contacting prospects amongst our registered members.
b) CCS/Website reproduces your details once you register on our website on "as is as available" basis and also share your profile with other registered CCS members within CCS website(s).
c) CCS/Website's obligation is only to provide an interface to its registered members to search their prospect themselves without any assistance from third party / persons from amongst the other registered members of the Website. You agree that the system generated search results of CCS/Website are only of the profiles registered members on Website.
d) CCS/Website's automated system offers match making profiles between its registered members based on the partner preference set by each such CCS member.
e) The search conducted by any CCS member and the results thereof are automatically generated, and based on the partner preference set by you. In the event CCS member changes their partner preference on the Website, then the automated system generated prospect results of the Website may also undergo corresponding change.
f) CCS/Website cannot guarantee or assume responsibility for any specific results from the use of the data available from the CCS service

4. Role and Responsibility of CCS Member
a. To protect the broader interest of the registered CCS member and increase the efficiency, CCS members ensure to keep their username and password safe and confidential for using the CCS services.
b. Any additional information / data required by CCS/Website for using the CCS services shall be provided by the CCS Member, as and when so sought by CCS/Website.
c. In case partner preference is modified by CCS member, then the automated system generated prospect search results in website may also undergone corresponding changes.
d. CCS members are requested to exercise due care and caution while shortlisting the prospect and satisfy themselves before making a choice of your match through adequate efforts, initiatives and due diligence. CCS/Website shall not be liable for short coming due to any misrepresentations made by any of its CCS members.
e. CCS Members are expected to verify the credentials of the prospect such as family status, marital status, educational qualifications, financial status, occupation, character, health status, etc.
f. To get better search results, CCS Members are expected to provide latest photograph which should not be more than 3 months old. Providing old photographs/ photographs of others, inaccurate / false information shall be treated as violation of terms and conditions and CCS/Website shall retain their right under clause 2 (b) of this terms and conditions.
g. CCS members are expected to disclose their health records during profile enrolment which includes any pre-existing illness, physical disability etc. Non- disclosure at the time of enrolment shall be treated as violation of the terms and conditions and CCS/Website shall retain their right under clause 2 (b) of this terms and conditions.
h. CCS Members are expected to refrain from :
i. Entering into any financial transactions with prospects.
ii. Sharing of confidential and personal data with each other but not limited to sharing of bank details, etc.
iii. Entering into physical relationship with any prospect before marriage.
iv. Violating any law for the time being in force.
v. From mentioning details of other matrimonial services while sending personalized messages.
i. CCS members are expected to visit Stay Safe Online for understanding the safety measures on partner search and awareness towards online safety.
j. CCS Members are expected to be cautious of prospects who call from multiple phone numbers, only interact over phone, doesn't come forward for face to face meeting (physically or through video calls) and don't involve family and friends in match making
k. The CCS members agrees that for getting effective search results of prospects on Website, you will regularly log in to the profile maintained in the Website and send expression of interest which is an automated messages to prospects as a free CCS member, and in the event you have availed paid CCS package, you can send personalized messages to prospects to show your expression of interest/replies. CCS member also may review the expression of interest sent to you / read the messages sent to you by prospects and may respond suitably.
l. CCS member shall not assign or transfer your CCS membership to any other person or entity, and such an act shall be treated as violation of terms and conditions and CCS/Website shall retain their right under clause 2 (b) of this terms and conditions.
m. If the CCS Member fails to inform CCS/Website, about any change in the particulars furnished by CCS member to other CCS member, then the CCS membership may be suspended by CCS/Website at its sole discretion.

5. Customer Care / Customer Service
In the event you come across any concerns in our service, then please be free to contact us:
Email ID: support@jainbyah.com
Contact No: +91-8041573311
Address:Cloud cube Services
No.155 Raj Towers, Office No 217,
2nd Floor, Cotton pet Main Road,
Opposite to Central Crime Branch,
 Bangalore 560053

6. Medium of Communication to CCS Members
a. CCS member hereby consents for receiving communication including promotional communications through any medium of communications such as Emails and /or SMS/Calls from consortium of websites owned by CCS or their alliance partners.
b. CCS/Website may contact the CCS member through any of the above media to share the profile of the prospect by way of internal messages / links. CCS member confirms that the mobile number submitted to it for verification or alternative number if any provided, is not registered with the Do Not Disturb / National Customer Preference Register and they shall not initiate any complaint. CCS Member further confirms that even if CCS Member is registered with the telecom service provider under the category Do Not Disturb / National Customer Preference Register the calls from CCS either to the verified mobile number or alternative number if any provided shall not be treated as promotional calls.

7. Confidentiality
I. CCS/Website has reasonable processes and system in place to maintain confidentiality of all personal information other than those meant for sharing with the prospect furnished by CCS members and CCS/Website may at its sole discretion and cost take bonafide steps for maintaining the confidentiality of the information in compliance with applicable law. However, CCS/ Website/CCS member may divulge such information if required by law.
II. Any feedback you provide to CCS/Website shall be deemed to be non-confidential. CCS/Website shall be free to use such feedback/information on an unrestricted basis. Further, by submitting the feedback, you represent and warrant that (i) your feedback does not contain confidential or proprietary information of yourself or third parties; (ii) CCS member is not under any obligation of confidentiality, express or implied, with respect to the feedback; (iii) you are not entitled to any compensation or reimbursement of any kind from CCS/Website for the feedback under any circumstances.
III. You agree that CCS/Website has all the right to process your data through the automated process to serve you with suitable profiles (based on your set partner preference) from CCS/Website or its consortium of websites and may also send you communication in this regard.

8. Privacy of Membership
CCS/Website has taken reasonable steps to protect the CCS member's privacy and shall take all reasonable efforts to protect any personal data provided to us through reasonable security safeguards against such risks as loss or unauthorized use, destruction, use, modification or disclosure of data etc.
Although we will strive to safeguard the confidentiality of your personally identifiable information, any information transacted over the Internet cannot be made absolutely secure. You also agree that the copying the data by using technology or any other new methods of data misuse/theft cannot be secured by CCS/Website and that CCS/Website will have no liability for any such act. CCS member understand and agree that CCS/Website will have no liability for disclosure of your information due to errors in transmission or unauthorized acts of third parties.
You also agree to keep your username and password confidential, to avoid any misuse of your profile at our Website.
Please read and comprehend our Privacy Policy, which also governs your visit to CCS/Website, to understand our practices. CCS members agree that their profile(s) may be crawled and indexed by search engines, where CCS/Website and its network does not have any control over the search engines behaviour and CCS/Website shall not be responsible for such activities of other search engines/third party websites.
You agree that, when you use third party services through Website, you hereby grant CCS/Website the right to share your information needed for providing such third party services to you or in relation to processing your information for office use of CCS/Website/its payment gateway and/or such third party service providers.

9. Disputes between Members
i. You and the prospect are both registered CCS members/CCS consortium of portals and are bound by these terms and condition.
ii. CCS/Website is not a broker or the agent of any CCSmember and CCS/Website does not take part in the exchange of any kind of discussion between the CCS members and prospects or the results of their discussion.
iii. CCSMembers are solely responsible for the communications (through any medium) with prospect or vice versa. CCS/Website expressly disclaims any responsibility or liability for any transaction(s) or exchange(s) or interaction(s) or passing of information(s) etc. between any CCS members inter se via e-mail, interaction or any other medium of communication between CCS members either using website or otherwise.
iv. CCS/Website has no obligation, to monitor any such disputes arising between the CCS members, and CCS/Website shall not be party to any such dispute/litigation etc.

11. Third Party website
a) CCS member understand and agree that CCS/Website may allow third parties to put up advertisements on the CCS application/Website, and CCS/Website does not control the contents of such third party advertisement on the CCS application/Website. Third party websites to which links are given on Website are not governed by these Terms and conditions and all such third party websites are governed by their own terms and conditions for use and privacy policy, and in case of conflict the terms and conditions of the third party website shall prevail. CCS does not in any manner whatsoever authenticate, endorse, verify or certify these third party websites or any contents therein. Please note that a user shall click on links to third party websites at his / her sole risk and responsibility.
b) CCS/Website reserves the right to add/delete/alter/modify/suspend any or all the CCS Services at any time as it may deem fit, without notice. The CCS members are expected to see the change on the Website.

12. Limitation of liability
a) CCS/Website likes to inform you that the exchange of profile(s) through or by CCS/Website should not in any way be construed as a matrimonial offer and/or recommendation and / or advice or guarantee given to the CCS member, from/ or by CCS/Website.
b) CCS / Website or its Office bearers shall under no circumstances be liable or responsible to the CCS member or his/her authorized Representative or Guardian or any third party for any direct, indirect, special, exemplary, incidental, or consequential damages of any character including, without limitation, damages resulting from the use of our Website/Third Party website/ CCS services.
c) Notwithstanding anything to the contrary contained herein, CCS/Website's liability to you for any cause whatsoever, and regardless of the form of the action, will at all times be limited to the amount paid, if any, by you to CCS/Website, for any specific CCS paid package, and no further.
d) CCS / Website will not be liable in case of any wrong match made due to any available data/profiles from the Website/CCS consortium of websites.
e) CCS /Website or its office bearers shall under no circumstances be liable, if any, CCS member enter into financial transaction with any prospect or third party.
f) CCS/Website or its office bearers shall under no circumstances be liable, if any CCS member's approaching other CCS members for the matrimonial alliance, is not responded/reciprocated by the other registered CCS member(s).

13. General
i. The Website shall be deemed to be used by you when it is loaded and/or continues to be loaded in temporary or permanent memory of your mobile phone, computer or any other device or in the internet browser thereof.
ii. Website act's as an intermediary as defined under sub-clause (w) of Section 2 of the Information Technology Act, 2000.
iii. In the event you file a false complaint against another prospect on our Website and consequently we have suspended/deleted that prospects profile based on your complaint, then we reserve our right to initiate appropriate legal (Civil/Criminal) action against you and claim any and all costs expenses from you, for such irresponsible/misrepresentation/illegal/unlawful action. We also reserve our right to suspend your profile and forfeit any and all amounts paid by you for the CCS services as per clause 2 (b) of these terms and conditions.
iv. Notwithstanding anything contained herein, CCS/Website reserves the absolute right to delete, in any manner as it deems fit, any content of any profile listing placed on CCS/website (once such instance come to CCS notice) in order to ensure compliance with the rules of such placement, prima facie accuracy and the prevailing laws in force for the time being, especially those relating to providing any obscene, libellous, blasphemous, slanderous, defamatory or invasive of another person's (deceased or alive) right of privacy or publicity, or that may reasonably be deemed to be harmful, vulgar, pornographic, abusive, harassing, threatening, hateful, objectionable with respect to race, religion, creed, nationality, gender or otherwise unfit for reproduction; or suggests or encourages unfair or illegal /indecent, unlawful activity. CCS/Website also reserves the right to block/ delete / suspend the profile which might be offensive, illegal or that might violate the rights, harm or threaten the safety of our office bearers/employees (including undue communication with any employee) and/or other registered prospects.
v. In case of conflict between the terms and condition of Website and terms and conditions of any other website including consortium of portal of CCS, the terms and condition of Website shall prevail for the service provided through this Website.
vi. After the expiry of the CCS paid package, the CCS member's profiles shall remain on Website/ consortium of portals from CCS itself, until the CCS member has to intimate the finalization of his/her marriage/existence of the Website and CCS memberhas to send a request mail to removemyprofile@jainbyah.com to delete his/her profile with their profile id and name and intimate the website for removal/deletion of once profile.

14. Disclaimer
a. Your access to and use of the CCS Services or any content is at your own risk. YOU UNDERSTAND AND AGREE THAT THE CCS SERVICES ARE PROVIDED TO YOU ON AN "AS IS" AND "AS AVAILABLE" BASIS. WITHOUT LIMITING THE FOREGOING, TO THE FULL EXTENT PERMITTED BY LAW, CS/WEBSITE DISCLAIMS ALL WARRANTIES, EXPRESS OR IMPLIED, OF MERCHANTABILITY, FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE, OR NON-INFRINGEMENT. CCS does not warrant that the Website, its servers, or e-mail sent from CCS are free of viruses or other harmful components. CCS/Website will not be liable for any damages of any kind arising from the use of this Website, including, but not limited to direct, indirect, incidental, punitive, and consequential damages.
b. CCS/Website does not give any implied or explicit guarantee or warranty of marriage or alliance by you choosing to register on our Website and using CCS services (both paid and free).
c. The CCS/Website - is intended only to serve as a preliminary medium of contact and information for its users / members / visitors who have a bona fide intention to enter into a matrimonial alliance. CCS/Website does not purport to be a marriage or business bureau or a dating /contact website and does not, in any manner whatsoever, monitor the first or subsequent contacts, introductions and/or interactions which may take place amongst / in between the user(s) / member(s) due to any information specified in the website.
d. Notwithstanding anything contrary contained anywhere, under no circumstances, CCS/Website shall be held responsible or liable whatsoever or howsoever, arising out of, relating to or connected with:
i. any act or omission not done by CCS/Website/ payment gateway/alliance partner etc.;
ii. any untrue or incorrect information submitted by you or on your behalf;
iii. any decision taken by you or on your behalf or any consequences thereof, based on any information provided by any other user (including suspension/deletion of the profile from CCS);
iv. any unauthorized or illegal act done by any third party relating to or connected with any information submitted by you or on your behalf;
v. any cybercrime attempted or committed by anyone and
vi. any incident of force-majeure or 'act of god'.
vii. Any issue already stated in these terms and conditions including limitation of liability clause of these terms and conditions.
viii. CCS/Website do not claim the authenticity or ownership of the home or office address scheduled for an appointment as being the member's actual or legal place of residence or employment respectively. CCS Members are requested to exercise due care and caution while shortlisting the prospect and satisfy themselves before making a choice of your match through adequate efforts, initiatives and due diligence. CCS/Website will not be liable for any damages of any kind arising from the use of this Website, including, but not limited to direct, indirect, incidental, punitive, and consequential damages.
ix. CCS/Website shall not be liable for the outcome of during any interaction in a meeting, call, sms, chat, email or social media posts at any point of time.
x. Any issues relating to any technical malfunction of any telecommunication network, software, hardware failures, network congestion, denial of service, failure due to spamming or any combination of the above.
e. You expressly agree that your use of this Website is at your sole risk.

16. Breach
You agree that if we receive feedback/ complaints against your profile in relation to the facts that you are seeking physical / financial favours from our other registered members or have provided incorrect information on our website or committed any unlawful/illegal activities through the use of our website or created a profile on our website by impersonation/ fake/ bogus/ false/ misrepresentation/ without consent of the person who's profile is being registered or use only part information including using photo of third parties without the permission of such third parties or act with other members/employees in indecent/improper manner, then we/CCS/Website in good faith reserve our right to suspend/delete your profile at our sole discretion without any notice to you, we also reserve to stop all CCS services to you and take any action as mentioned in clause 2 (b) of the Terms and Conditions.
CCS/Website reserves the right to forthwith terminate your CCS membership, block/delete your profile and forfeit entire amount paid as membership fee; if at any time CCS/Website, in its sole discretion, is of the opinion or has any reason to believe that, you have violated these Terms and conditions of use. We also reserve our right to file appropriate police complaint against you, if the breach of these terms and conditions is/are criminal in nature.

17. Termination
a. Unless otherwise provided in these Terms and Conditions, CCS membership may be terminated by CCS/Website / you without assigning any reasons by serving 7 days written notice on the other, all amount paid till date by you to CCS/Website shall be forfeited.
b. Upon termination / suspension of CCS membership, your right to use or access the Website/CCS services will cease immediately. All provisions of this terms and conditions that by their nature should survive termination shall survive termination, including, without limitation, disclaimers, and limitations of liability. Termination of your access to and use of the CCS Services shall not relieve you of any obligations arising or accruing prior to such termination.

18. Jurisdiction and Applicable Law
a) The registration of CCS membership and all CCS services / Website are deemed to have been entered into within the territorial Jurisdiction of Bangalore, India.
b) The CCS Members unconditionally agree that all such disputes and / or differences if any shall be governed by the Laws of India and submitting to the exclusive Jurisdiction of appropriate court of law in Bangalore, Karnataka, India.
c) You hereby, unconditionally and irrevocably confirm that you have read terms and conditions and agree to abide by them.

20. Mode of Payment
a. Payment made by cash / cheque / Net Banking / Debit / Credit Card would be in accordance with the prevailing RBI guidelines. Activation of paid CCS service shall be subject to realization of the said payment. In case of dishonour of Cheque/demand draft; you shall be liable to pay applicable bank's cheque/DD bouncing charges. Further CCS service to your account will be deactivated / suspended until you settle the value of the payment and applicable bank charges in cash.
b. CCS/Website uses third party payment gateways for collection of credit/debit card or other payment instruments. In case of payment gateway failure the same would be communicated to the CCS member by the payment gateway provider. CCS/Website shall not be responsible for Extra currency/conversion charges/deductions/error issues from payment gateway. In the case of failed online transactions, which result in no services, CCS/Website offers no guarantees whatsoever for the accuracy or timeliness of the refunds reaching the Customers card/bank accounts through the payment gateway.
c. You agree to provide us with your Permanent Account Number / Form 60/61 of the Income Tax Act, 1961 and rules thereunder in the event you choose any paid package of CCS, the value of such paid package being Rs.2,00,000/- [Rupees Two Lakh Only] and above from CCS.

21. Renewal
A. The payments made by CCS member to CCS/Website by way of paid membership / renewal fee are treated as non-refundable. Payment once made for CCS services cannot be assigned to any person/party or adjusted towards any other product or packages provided by CCS.
B. CCS members cannot put the paid CCS service on hold even temporarily, for any reason whatsoever. Based on the tenure of paid CCS service and date of payment taken, the expiry of paid CCSservice will automatically happen on expiry of the applicable paid package taken by you.
By registering on Jainbyah.com, you agree that you have read the above terms, and would abide to these terms of use/agreement.

Thank you,
Jainbyah.com(CCS)
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Stay Safe Online

Jainbyah.com (CCS) aims to provide you with a safe & secure environment in which you search and find your life partner.

• Our Customer Relations team ensures that every profile put up at CCS is screened for irrelevant and/or inappropriate content.
• We also have strict abuse-prevention and reporting systems for those that do get through our screening systems.

However, in ensuring your safety & privacy, we're limited to actions that are within our control. Therefore, it is necessary for you to exercise some simple precautions for your privacy & for a safe and secure experience.

Here are some simple guidelines YOU can follow to protect your privacy.

1.  Guard your anonymity

Do

• Remember that you are in control of your online experience at all times. You can remain completely anonymous until YOU choose not to.

Don't

• Don't include your personal contact information like name, email address, home address, telephone numbers, place of work or any other identifying information in your initial messages.
• Don't send contact information until your instincts tell you that this is someone you can trust. It's okay to take your time.

2.  Start slow - Use emails initially
Set up a separate email account for communicating. Trust your instincts and start by sharing only your email address and communicating solely via email.

Do

• Look for odd behaviour or inconsistencies. Serious people will respect your space and allow you to take your time.
• Ask a friend to read the emails you receive - an unbiased observer can spot warning signs you missed.
• Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.

Don't

• Don't use signature lines in your emails that include your phone numbers and addresses.
• Don't use your regular or official email id for communicating with a person you don't know well.

3.  Request for a photo
A photo will give you a good idea of the person's appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling. In fact, it's best to view several images of someone in various settings: casual, formal, indoors and outdoors. If all you hear are excuses about why you can't see a photo, consider that he or she has something to hide.


4.  Chat on the phone
A phone call can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills. Consider your security and do not reveal your personal phone number to a stranger.

Do

• Use a pre-paid mobile phone number or use local telephone blocking techniques to prevent your phone number from appearing in Caller ID. Only furnish your phone number when you feel completely comfortable and have some background information on the other person.
• If someone gives you a phone number with a strange area code, check it out to make sure it's not a charge number before you make the call.

5.  Meet when YOU are ready
The beauty of meeting online is that you can collect information gradually, later choosing whether to pursue the relationship in the offline world. You never are obligated to meet anyone. Go at your own pace!

Do

• Remember that you are in control when it comes to taking an online relationship offline.
• Even if you decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It's possible that your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on a hunch that you can't logically explain. Trust yourself. Go with your instincts.

6.  Meet in a safe place
when you choose to meet offline it is a good idea to try and include either or both of your families. But if you trust the person enough to meet alone always tell a friend or your family where you are going and when you will return.

Do

• When you decide to meet face to face with someone for the first time, choose a public place (such as a restaurant / cafe) at a time when many people are around and ensure your own transportation to and fro.
• For the first meeting it is always good not to meet the other person alone. Take a friend or relative along and ask him/her to do the same.
• In case you do decide to meet him/her alone leave the name, address and telephone number of the person you are going to meet with your friend or family member. Take a cellular phone along with you.

Don't

• Never arrange for your prospective match to pick you up or drop you at home.
• Do not go to a secluded place or a movie alone at the first meeting.

7.  Watch for warning signs
Watching for warning signs and acting upon it is the surest way to avoid an uncomfortable situation.

Do

• Ask a lot of questions and watch for inconsistencies. This will help you detect liars & cons, and it will help you find out if you're compatible.
• Pay attention to displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts to pressure or control you. Acting in a resentful manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments, or any physically inappropriate behaviour are all warning signs.
• Involve your family or your close friends in your search for a life partner and do not take a decision unilaterally.

Don't

• Don't ignore the following behaviour specially if it is without an acceptable explanation:
• Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.
• Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions
• Appears significantly different in person from his or her online persona
• Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members

8.  Beware of money scams
Watch out for money scams. There are just too many con artists and scam artists around the world, and they are everywhere.

Do

• Be wary of those who try to ask money from you for whatever reason. But it would be safer to cut off the communication. Remember a genuine person will not ask you for money in any circumstance. If someone asks you for money, use common sense and never give in to such requests.
• In case someone asks you for money report the situation to us.

Don't

• Take all the time you need to decide on a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way. Be responsible about romance, and don't fall for the oldest con tricks of people who shower love and affection at the first instance and disappear later. Don't become prematurely close to someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online.

Using your own good judgment is your best bet because ultimately you are responsible for your personal experience. Trust your instincts and then move ahead with the right person!

If you do have an unpleasant experience you can always report it to the authorities.
CCS to assist Bangalore Police / Statutory Investigation Agency
CCS will endeavour to provide all possible assistance to the Bangalore Police (Cyber Crime Investigation Cell) or any other statutory investigation agency to tackle fraudulent users of Jainbyah.com, on being specifically instructed by the said authorities to do so.

To report fraud or misuse, write to us at support@jainbyah.com giving full details of your case.